Update on Nathan

So, Nathan....remember him?  The hot guy I had a beer with, but he wouldn't do much else until one day I hit on that he likes ass play.  No, he doesn't 'like' ass play, he LOVES ass play.

It had been two weeks since our last meeting [our first meeting with sex] and I was ready for it.  So I sent him a note this morning..."are you in town today?"  Yes was his response.  "Lets play doctor at 1.  OK?"
OK, he says.
With roughly two hours to get ready, I had to get the house cleaned up enough to host him, get ready myself, and find time to go out and get some lube that was missing.  As it turns out, he was delayed an hour, but I was still ready for him.

I met him at the door with my heavily starched shirt and nice red tie on, and the play began.  He was already hard when I had him take his pants off for the testicle, penis, and anal exams.  So we played Dr. and patient for a while, and all was good.

But the really nice part was time we spent with otherwise.  He's a great kisser, and an intelligent guy overall.  We talked about being out or not, boyfriends and lovers, our likes and dislikes, and even talked about how great it would be to sleep together, and wake up fucking in the middle of the night.  Damn, he had me there.  I absolutely love doing that.

I think it will work out OK with him.  Not a lifelong, permanent partner, but a really good friend, I hope.  Looking forward to more with him.

Kissing

 Kissing...is so underrated.  Something so sexy about it, I really can't describe.
As a young man, I didn't experience the joy of kissing another man.  It was so taboo, but today.... I love it.

My guy has to like it too, or we just can't be together.

Rough or tender, it all works.  And I have to mix it up.

Sometimes, it is just a light touch, barely grazing his lips.  A little tongue action, licking his lips or touching his tongue to mine.  Or I gently bite his lip.  Just kind of gnaw on it a little.

 Finally I move in for the full tongue action, fighting tongues, probing, searching.

 What do you do with your hands?  Mine are nearly always on his head, holding him to me.  Or around his neck, guiding his face to mine, and caressing him.

Often, my hands are on his chin or the side of his face, caressing, rubbing, and tenderly steering him to me.

How do you kiss your man?  The guy on the right is a great kisser!!!  My favorite.  

NEEDED...a guy's weekend.

I have never quite believed in supernatural powers, good luck charms, and the like, but I do think that we men have something going on that resembles a woman's menstrual period.  Not the physical part, maybe, but at least something happening that seems to affect our mood.  At least, that is the way I seem to be.  Sometimes, I can blame it on the full moon, or maybe it's something else.


I mention this because I have been having some really unusual things happen.  For the last month or so, I have had no trouble finding a dick to suck or an ass to pound.  In fact, it was almost too much a few times, and I actually had to prioritize what I wanted to do.  In the last few days though, nothing seemed to go right.  I had two guys, different times, lined up for yesterday, and they both stood me up.  I have had guys back out at the last minute, but no one has been that rude before.

Over the weekend, my regular Sunday guy backed out.  We had conflicts and couldn't get together.  Then on Monday, there was gonna be a foursome that got aborted...3 of the 4 couldn't make it for one reason or another.  I know all of them, and I am sure it was gonna be a great time for all.  Plus, I wanted to have another round with a Construction Worker guy I met a few months back.  He is a really hot bottom.

Of course on Tuesday, I did have a really nice fuck with one of my regulars...Flip.  He was out of town on a business trip, and I arranged to join him for an overnight.  He rode me like he has never done before, and shot a giant load all over my chest doing it.

Still, I have just been feeling like things aren't quite right.  Had the doldrums myself, and probably making other people miserable too.

On Friday, two of my best straight buds and I are going for a guy's weekend.  Kind of reminds me of Loki's weekend he wrote about a few weeks back, but not nearly as organized.  But we will have a good time...some nice drinks, boating and/or jet skis on a lake, good food, and a lot of story telling and good times.  I am really looking forward to it.

And who knows, maybe this full moon we have right now DOES have something to do with it.

Sean's TMI Thursday

Sean from http://justajeepguydc.blogspot.com/ has been doing TMI Thursday where he asks questions and asks his readers to answer them in comments, or here in their blog.  For this week....


1. How would you like to die? How don't you want to die?
Wow...these questions got really heavy.  And difficult.  I am not completely sure about this, but I know that I don't want to die of Alzheimer's.  But, I also don't want to die of a liver disease, or any disease that allows you to linger in pain for days, weeks, or even months.  
We obviously have little control over this anyway, so I guess I will leave it to fate. 
But, if I am to die at a time in my life when my organs will still be of use to someone else, then I hope to go in a way that allows it. 
2. Do you want to go before or after your spouse?

At this point, I want her to go first so that I can dance on her grave.

3. Have you planned your wake or funeral? 

No.  I don't really expect to.  I think that is for the living, and they should plan it based on what they feel comfortable with at the time.  If I know far enough ahead, I will discuss some suggestions with my kids, but it will be their show.

4. How do you want your body laid to rest?

Sprinkle the ashes over my mom and dad's graves.  The two people who always loved me, no matter what I did.

5. What do you think happens to you after you die?

I guess I'm an agnostic. 

Bonus
If you died today but could be frozen and brought back in 100 years, would you?

Yes, without hesitation.  I am intrigued by the future, and have always wanted to know about everything...I guess you can say I am nosy.  

As much as I detest labels, I still find myself trying to put a label on me.

For the first time in over a year, I had a few days with a lady friend, a fuck buddy but a female one.  We really are good friends first, but it felt so nice to roll over in the middle of the night, and find a moist hole all lubed up naturally and ready for some sex.

But...I missed having a dick to play with that wasn't mine.  I missed the scruff to rub up against.  I missed a deep tongue kiss that lasted for minutes.  I like being just a little rough, and she wasn't in that mood and really never is.

Still, the blow job was really nice.  No, not nice, it was heavenly.  It was soft and stimulating.  It was hardening.  And I knew that she loved doing it.  She was worshiping my dick.

So, if I had my pick, would it be door HE or door SHE?  So unfair.  Can't I have both?

Sweet Sunday 3some

Today was a down day.  Not that I was down, just a day I planned to kind of take it easy.  After a raucous weekend that was spicier than I expected, I was OK to take it easy today.  I guess I forgot to mention that yesterday [Sunday actually], my regular Sunday bottom boi [who I had not seen in 2 weeks] was looking for me...he needed to be fucked, I guess.  And he wanted something special, so he asked me to get my other bud, and the three of us have some naked fun.  I had tried once a few weeks ago, but it fell through, so I was not optimistic that we would succeed...but we did.

After a few miscues, he found my other bud's house.  The first big decision was where in the house to play, since we were standing there in the rec room taking our clothes off, I think we had already made that decision.  It started a little slow...BB [bottom boi] was his usual outstanding self, great pecs, lats, and all of those other muscles that make him look good, were in great working order.  He immediately went down on me, having missed my dick for a few weeks.  My other bud then got undressed.

But it was strange for me.  I was not used to having another guy around when BB and I were playing, and it had an adverse effect on me.  I didn't keep it as hard as I usually do.  In fact, I barely fucked BB at all.  So, instead, he kept my dick in his mouth for a long time.  He has a great mouth and knows what makes a guy feel good.  It wasn't long before I was cumming, and he hungrily ate it all.

Meanwhile, my other bud was just getting started.  He finally got his monster dick in BB, and I had my fun watching the two of them and taking pictures and videos.  I do truly love to see my BB get fucked.  He is so vocal, like a cheering party all his own, telling the top how great it feels, how he loves being fucked, and keeps it going the whole time.  And, I must admit, that my bud fucked him longer and harder than I had recently, so I know that BB really liked it....on his back, on all fours, on his side, and riding my bud's dick.

So, today, the down day.  It's just after midnight, and I am a bit horny.  Maybe just watch some porn and JO.
Yeah!
Later ----

Nathan Gets What He REALLY Wanted

For a guy like me, it is such a great feeling when a dreary, rainy Saturday turns into a dreary, rainy Saturday with a true bottom.  The details aren't important, but at the last minute, Nathan and I met up, and had a really great time.

After a bit of pleasurable punishment, and a doctor/patient rectum inspection, multiple insertions later, and we both found our happy place.

Being the passionate guy I am, I found the kissing to be a highlight.  He is a great guy to kiss, and, we did.  

But, I have more planned.  I am SOOOO looking forward to getting with him again.  It will be a great time.