Thursday, September 27, 2012

Sean's TMI Thursday

Sean from has been doing TMI Thursday where he asks questions and asks his readers to answer them in comments, or here in their blog.  For this week....  
1. Are you a cheap date?
No. That's not to say I'm not cheap, either.  If I try, I can drink all day and most of the night.  Well, I used to be able to without feeling it so much, now it just takes longer to recover.  

2. What is your favorite drink? (you can have different ones for different occasions)
Beer...draft beer to be exact, best at a brewpub.  Except for early morning, then I'll go for a mimosa or a bloody mary, and then a beer.  Then maybe a margarita-rocks with salt, or a Tanquere and tonic, or a ...OK...just whatever you got in the bar, let me try it. 

3. Worst experience?
A teen experience...19 or so, with two of my best friends, got so drunk that I actually shit my pants.  Wow...never do that again.  
4. Beer goggles?
Way too many experiences to pick out the one I am most embarrassed about.  Going down on a girl who was on her period when I didn't realize it, or the time I tried to pick up a straight guy in a bar...not realizing he was straight.  I'm lucky I didn't get my ass beat for that one.

5. Whats the funniest thing you've done while drinking?
Well...since I was always the drunk one, I am not the one to ask that question.  Haven't a clue.

Ever drunk dial?
Lots, but nothing funny enough to remember or brag about.  

Sunday, September 16, 2012

Grow Up

For the record, I have never told this story to any of my anyone actually.  You are the first.

When I was a kid [probably around 11], I can vividly remember when a 17-18 year old guy [a high school senior] came to our city park, hired by the city, to 'supervise' the kids for the summer.  You know, just keep everyone safe from hurting everyone else, bring the checkers and the balls, and generally just be a good guy.  He was SOoooo hot.  Even then, I realized how really great looking this guy was.  That was back in the days when weejuns and tight fitting, pegged, dark blue jeans were in.  That's what he wore the first time I saw him.  I don't remember what kind of car he drove, only that it was cool [although I didn't use that term then].  He wore the weejuns without socks, of course...that was what the really cool guys did then.  Even then, I wanted him to take those shoes off, to let me see his bare feet, but, of course, it never happened.

I still remember his name...but won't repeat it here.  And, although he was only about 6 years older, to me at that time, he was a real man--grown up--and super hot.  Unfortunately, he was only there for a few weeks, and then we got a slightly plump [she was fat] gal a few years older than him.  She was super nice, but nothing to look at.  I still liked her though.

As fate would have it [this was a fairly small city in Ohio], my path crossed the hot guys path a few years later although he and I never personally met again.  I was in college by then, and met a gal there who was a few years older than me, and, it turned out, used to be married to him.  I think he knocked her up, and had to get married, but then they divorced for possession of the wedding cake.  I ended up being pretty good friends with her although she was a couple of years older than me.  And, of course, I met her son dream guy's son too.  'Older-hot-guy" didn't seem so much older than me by then.

By the time I was 30, I had played around with quite a few guys.  I always liked them younger [legal, but younger], even then.  A 22 year old when I was 30 didn't seem like he was really that young to me.  But, I am pretty sure he thought I was an old man. things change.

The next couple of decades, as I was approaching my 50s, the years seemed to fly by very quickly.  There were kids and other family things keeping me occupied, and I really never played around then.  But, still, there were a few guys that I did look at, and I looked at them quite a bit.  Always younger.  One in particular was especially hot.  Although I was faithful to my marriage vows, if I thought he would have agreed, I probably would have broken those vows for him. Fortunately, I was sure he wouldn't and I couldn't potentially screw up a friendship for a fling that had little chance of actually happening.

Time hasn't slowed down for me as I would guess for you either.  Now I look at those 18 year olds, and realize they are far too young, even if they had the urge, to play with an old man like me.  If my maturity-level and growth is any indication, it will be another 5-10 years before they really understand life.  But, that is just me, and I suspect others hit that time in their life when they truly understand themselves and what they want, at very different times.  In fact, even at my age, I am not always sure what I really want. I am.  A 25 year old in a 50+ body.  A body that is showing the erosion of age.  It has been fairly well taken care of, mostly, but not as well as some others.  Fortunately, most of the bad things that I have done to it [or allowed to be done to it], have been in small doses, and it has been able to recover from most of those.  And, despite what I see when I look in the mirror, I still crave those 25 year olds.

I don't want to grow up...Anymore than I am.   Can't we just pause time for a while?  Let me get my bearings, get some things straightened out [no pun intended], and then, when all is right, get on with our lives?


Thursday, September 13, 2012

Who is your favorite? Or Friend List?

Picking up an idea from another blogger, I want to tell you who is on my 'Star' list.  You know, the way you 'Star' someone on GRINDR to make them a favorite.  Or in Adam4Adam, you make them a friend so you can easily see if he is online or not.
Because GRINDR lists them closest to furthest, I will do that too.  But, they change least weekly, sometimes daily...depending on what's happening.
1.  Me...on GRINDR, you always appear first because, you are closest to yourself, right?
2.  My friend, B.  A platonic relationship, he is out, partnered, a bit quirky, and I really enjoy chatting with him and running around with him.
3.  Another friend, 18 YO, college student, starting hitting me up a few months back, 'just looking for someone to chat with'.  OK, so we chat, share pics and some stories, but he is too young for a sexual relationship.
4.  Unnamed.  My age, and wants to meet up.  We just haven't found a mutual time to make it work.
5.  Unnamed also.  A bit younger, but a willing bottom.  We were supposed to meet today for the first time, but I have been a bit under the weather so delayed until next week.
6.  Flip...written about him before. A standard, good for a fuck whenever we are both around.  He lives a bit far away, but works close.
7. date for this weekend.  Great guy, lives near DC and is coming in tomorrow for the weekend.  Can't wait to see him again.
8.  J.  Chatted quite a bit with him for several months.  A 'swimmers build' kind of guy, married, handsome, mid-40s, living in WV.  Haven't met up with him, but hope to on one of my trips that way.
9.  D.

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

It's Fall

Love this cooler weather.  There is something very comforting in snuggling between nice soft sheets with a down comforter on top, keeping me warm.  I would much rather have a warm man with me, but I'll take the down comforter until I find the guy [which, BTW, I expect to find this weekend...I GOTTA DATE!!!].

Oh, and about that date.  It's the guy I wrote about a few weeks back.  The 43 YO with whom I had a really pretty great time.  He called me Friday, and wanted to plan something for this weekend, so we did.  I think I will splurge a bit, and hope that it turns out well.  I am very confident.

Meanwhile, back at the ranch!!  I haven't been active lately at all.  Just not quite feeling like I want to go out and explore much.  Although I did find a guy Saturday night who was a lot of fun.  It was one of those meet-ups that was disappointing at first.  You know, the kind where the expectations far outweigh the actual live body when you first see him?  But, instead of writing it off, I decided to chat with him a bit, and have a drink before bailing.

As it turned out, we had a pretty nice time.  He isn't my first pick, but he is a real person, and has real needs, and is very earnest about it.  Plus, I must admit that anytime a guy truly admires my dick, I let him.  Just makes me feel good.

It saddens me that a few of my blogger buddies have had some rough times recently.  Loki from for one.  And some really good news from Sean at although it seemed like a rough year to get to this point.  Read about it on their blogs.

This guy could make my day anytime.
Happy Autumn to all.

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Sean's TMI Thursday

Sean from has been doing TMI Thursday where he asks questions and asks his readers to answer them in comments, or here in their blog.  For this week....  
1. Do you still go to the movies? Why or Why not.
Occasionally, but rarely.  Just too many other options to see a good movie.
2. Would you go by yourself?
Not crazy about seeing a movie alone.  No.
3. What was the last movie you saw? Recent recommendation?
The Avengers.  The kids made me go.  I thought it was a movie about a British spy team.
Recommend?  Yeah, if you like a lot of action with not much of a plot.
4. Snacks: Buy, Bring or Boycott?
Buy a drink but the rest of that crap is really bad for you.
5. Teenagers used to go to the movies to make out. Have you ever and if so, when was the last time?
Sure, but not to a movie theater, we did that at the drive-in theater...shows you how old I am.  But, I never got to home plate there, but to third base quite often, with a gal.
6. Have you ever gone to an adult movie theater? Did you pull a Pee Wee Herman?
Never been.
Which all-time favorite movie would you pay to see on the big screen again? Of course cell phones, babies, and assholes are banned.
I'm not much of a movie guy, as you can tell, but I absolutely loved WHERE EAGLES DARE, the 1968 movie with Richard Burton and Clint Eastwood that was set in Germany during WWII.