"CURIOUS" is all it said...you know the blank GRINDR screen with no pic. Inside... white, 41, 6-0, 185.
"What are you curious about?"
Finally a reply, "About blowjobs"
"Getting one or giving one?"
Predictable, I hoped. "Both".
The usual banter ensued....married, yes...discreet, yes...ddf, yes...then it departed from the predictable a bit.
Scott: "I have never sucked a dick, but really want to.
You will have to help me, tell me what to do."
Me: "Not a problem. When can you meet?"
I was elated. This guy had potential, and I really wanted to explore it. But, I am too discreet to just give out my address to anyone, so I insisted on meeting somewhere else, to give him a chance to see me and me see him before committing to a hook up.
The meeting was great. He was certainly great material, and we were off to the house.
It was fun...he liked to kiss, and we did that a lot. He was nervous but let me undress him, then me. He is not a muscle man, but has a nice dick, nice ass, hwp-as they say, and certainly worth looking at. As he wanted, I took control of the situation and we spent a lot of time licking, sucking, and touching...all over.
I realized I have this novice in my bed, naked, and really hungry for a man. I had to know his limits, but even if I asked, he couldn't tell me, because he didn't know them. I decided to help him discover what he likes.
Being sucked? yes.
Ass play? Need to find out, so I got a little lube and started rubbing his hole, reassuring him that I was not gonna fuck him, and I would stop whenever he wanted.
His reaction to my finger was immediate and undeniable. He was writhing, moaning, and barely able to stay on the bed. Loving to make a guy feel good, I continued with a finger, then a larger thumb. I then combined it with some jacking...and he had so much precum, we needed no more lube.
I realized that he was probably not used to this ass play, and I should
slow down although I really thought that if I had tried hard, I could have
fucked him. Still, I kept this up for a while which made me harder and even more turned on as I witnessed his reaction to my playfulness. Finally, I knew we needed to finish it up...time was not on our side. My goal now was to make sure he wanted to come back for more.
After we both came, I sent him to the showers. He then left, feeling very good, I think.
A followup note to his GRINDR account: "You are gonna be a little sore...hope you enjoyed it."
But, alas, it fell on deaf ears. The whole incident was a few months ago, and he never responded. I finally took him off as a favorite, and forgot about him. [Not totally forgotten...it was a hot encounter.]
On Monday last week-two months after our meeting, I got a note from him..."Just wanted to say Happy New Year."
Mmmmmmmmmm. Only one reason he would wish me Happy New Year after that long.
Me: "Love to meet up again if you want to sometime...guaranteed discretion."
S: "Busy today?"
Me: "I am now...you remember how to get here?"
It's gonna be fun.